If you read yesterday's post, understand that I don't want anyone's pity. I spent over three years wallowing in self-pity and I learned it's absolutely pointless. People with stories like mine don't want to hear the word "sorry"; it just doesn't help. We need encouragement. I would want someone to say "I know you. You're going to get through this. I'm here to support you in whatever way I can. You're not to blame." Where I am now, I want to hear things like, "Yes! Yes! You did it! You came through to the other side! It seemed impossible, yet here you are!"
No pity parties! I refuse to attend! And I hope all of you avoid them as well.
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